by Gary Morland, Talent Coach
A friend told me about a trip to the mountains with her 8-year-old son.
She said he loved the views when they arrived. But the next morning it was foggy.
He was disappointed, but said, “You know what mom? Even though I can’t see the mountains I know they’re still there. Just like God.”
What was my reaction?
I totally connected with her mom heart melting because her boy was ‘getting it.’
I could feel it was moving to her, so I was moved, too. Emotions are contagious, right?
She could have just told me, “You know, God is always there even when he seems distant.”
She could have said, “It’s encouraging when your kids grow in faith.”
It would have been true. But I would not have felt what I felt with her story. I felt the truth, AND I felt another human being like me.
I connected with her and her desire for her child to move towards God.
Stories help people hear what we have to say and to connect with us.
Story Connects Us
People are already wired to keep listening and to follow your story to where you want to lead them.
Why are we wired that way?
The Gospel is a story. There’s a beginning, middle and an end.
There’s a villain who steals the beloved away. There’s a hero who pursues his beloved, never gives up, and heroically sacrifices his life to save his beloved. And there’s a surprising, inspiring climax with a hopeful ending.
God did not copy that story form from novels and movies. Novels and movies copied that form because they recognized people resonate with it.
People resonate with it because a sensitivity to the Gospel is built into all of us.
Every human is drawn to the story form, even if they don’t know why.
So when we use stories, we’re cooperating with how God has made us all to communicate.
Story doesn’t mean truth is not important. It means we know how to say true things in a way that people are wired to hear.
Story is valuable because you can take the listener where you want – into a feeling, a conviction, a truth, a response.
Story connects people. It’s a gift to us.